Thanks for this review. I have recently watched a 4 day seminar called Real Social Dynamics: Blueprint, and Owen, the author, takes many of his values from Eckhart.

So I thought I would check out the Power of Now. I obtained the audio version yesterday. By the way, unlike most books, the audio book is actually read out by the author himself! I think this makes all the difference, otherwise I might have trouble internalising the detail.

So far, only 2 chapters in, and despite an introduction to Tolle from another teacher, I am already blown away. I can see how so many of the world’s problems, not just the big but also the trivial, are driven by living in the past and the future and not the now. Incredible.

What I would like to ask you is, how has your world changed in the months since you wrote this blog post and read the book? Have there been gradual changes to your way of thinking? And how has this translated to your lifestyle or relationships?

I’m curious to know. Of course, that means that I am thinking too much about the future already and missing out on the NOW
Chris
http://www.Grow-You.com

There’s no right or wrong answer for this, so long as you’re coming from a place of giving. The key, here, is not *what* you’re offering, it’s that you are offering. It’s the mentality that makes the difference, and it’s the mentality, not the result, that women are drawn to.

The question in your mind could either be “what can I offer her so that she wants to give back”, or “what can I offer her because she needs it.” It’s the difference between wanting to take and wanting to give.

Most of the time, men who approach women don’t give a shit what the women need, they only care about what *they* need. Try being a man who does the reverse, a man who only cares about what the opposite sex needs. Fulfill that need, and you’ll be the one they desire forever.

Great post either way Thanx

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vijai

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