You may have seen them – those rare men that are excelling at a rapid pace – and you may be wondering what their secret is. I don’t know, and frankly I don’t care. What I do care is that YOU are excelling at a rapid pace. And I’m going to share with you one of the most powerful mindsets to do that, starting TODAY.
Take a moment and think of the last time you were out being social and meeting people. Now if I was to ask you to tell me with complete honesty and integrity what level you were playing at on a scale of 1-10, would you say 100? In fact, when was the last time you played at a 100? Or worse, have you never played at a 100??
If you want to get good fast you have to push your boundaries every time you go out. Whether its rolling into a group of 9 guys and 1 cute girl, or chasing her down for 6 blocks to make her day, or deciding to get your second and third and fourth wind when things aren’t going your way.
As you’re answering this you may wonder how this translates into results. Your mind has already begun rationalizing that it’s not worth it. What’s the point, after all, you can go and approach this other girl that’s standing there by herself. Easier? Yes, and in the short-term it may seem like the better way to go. But you will deny yourself the most amazing growth and long-term results if that remains your philosophy. This whole thing isn’t about instant results, it’s about what kind of a man you become.
Let me directly address some of the limiting thoughts…
I don’t want to approach that group of 9 guys and a cute girl because I don’t know the group dynamics.
– Go in and find out. Offer value.
It’s just too uncomfortable
– What a great opportunity to massively develop your inner strength and to become that man!
I’m going to hold on until I reach a certain level
– With that mindset it’ll take you a long time to reach that level. Reach and surpass that level by stepping up NOW.
Are you the man that goes that extra step to truly do whatever it takes? My intuition is that you are, oe you wouldn’t be here otherwise. In the past you may not have known it, but it’s time. Deliver an outstanding performance, and you’ll get rapid growth and women that you could only find in your wildest dreams.
Cheyenne
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations
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I love that video. Great post!
lol I got teary-eyed when I saw that. Awesome post!