This is something that took me a long time to understand.
I used to spend countless hours learning and gaining knowledge. I thought more knowledge and information would make me more successful and happier. Not the case. Unfortunately, this is how most of society operates.
If this was the case, then everybody with a PHD would be successful.
What separates the most successful from the rest, is not that they’re more intelligent or smarter… it’s because they stepped up and took action!
Our ability to make decisions and take action is something that everyone is capable of. You don’t need resources or money or more time than anyone else… all you need to do are take the actions necessary to get to where you want to be.
People think that you need to learn as much as possible about a subject before you take action on it — WRONG! This is not the case… however, knowing a lot about it can help, it is also hindering you from achieving the success that you want.
Men think that learning as much as possible about meeting women and relationships is going to make them successful in this area… WRONG! I can’t tell you how many guys I know that know so much about meeting women and all the theory and tactics… but still suck at it and can’t get a girlfriend if they wanted to.
We are not short of information. The information is there and always will be. We live in an information age. What is lacking, is our ability to make decisions and take action towards our goals.
Forget learning more… you know enough! Don’t get caught up in the trap of constantly going to seminars, reading books, going to classes, etc… as long as it’s not holding you from acting on what you need to do.
Yes, I still see a ton of value in learning and reading and all that jazz. In fact, I do that constantly. However, it’s your ability to take what you learn and practice and apply it that will make you successful and achieve the goals that you want.
Ask yourself… what actions can you take today that will make you closer to achieving what you want?
It isn’t learning more about health and fitness… it’s going to the gym!
It isn’t learning more about meeting women and dating… it’s going out and approaching 12 women!
Hopefully this post will call some people to action!
Stefan
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations
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Your post just made my day - so glad I got to read it,