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Time With Her VS Living Your Life

Published by Cheyenne on June 10, 2008 in Dating & Relationships and Self Improvement. 1 Comment

You’ve made it - she’s in your life. You have an amazing time together and a good connection. What’s next?

Do you drop your daily rituals and activities to spend more time with her?
Do you reduce or even stop hanging out with your friends?
Do you make her the focal point of your life?

If you were anything like what I used to be, the answers to any and all the above would be yes. And on the surface, it looks like a great proposition. You get to see, smell, and touch her every day. Every free moment is spent with a girl you adore. She makes you happy.

As you peel the layers, however, you discover some new beliefs that are growing in your mind: “Only she can make me happy.” “I need her to be fulfilled.” “If she leaves my life, I have nothing.” And guess what? You give these beliefs enough time, they’ll begin to manifest in every aspect of your relationship eventually leading to the demise of the relationship you tried so hard to maintain.

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Sleep

Published by Jason on May 26, 2008 in Health & Fitness, Miscellaneous and Self Improvement. 3 Comments

This might seem like a topic that is obvious to most people, but I think it’s also often overlooked.

 In the past, I’ve been guilty of sacrificing sleep to go out and have fun. I’d go out and have people over at my place so often that I’d only get a few hours of sleep each night. I know many people are okay with this amount of sleep, but I’m not one of them. While this obviously gave me plenty of amazing stories and great life experiences, it didn’t always make for a very healthy life.

For the past few months, I’ve been eating better and getting more sleep. I’m happy to say that I feel great! I have tons of energy and I’ve never felt better. I feel like I can conquer the world.

A huge part of being successful with women is being in the right state of mind. If you’re tired and not feeling well, you won’t be at your best. Don’t neglect the importance of taking care of yourself. When your body and mind are taken care of, success in other areas of life won’t be far behind!

 Jason
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations

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The FREE Meeting Women Seminar

Published by Stefan on May 25, 2008 in Updates. 1 Comment

I’m happy and excited to announce the FREE MEETING WOMEN SEMINAR hosted by Lifestyle Transformations, in Vancouver BC.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

If you’re interested in improving not only your relationships and success with women, but your LIFE overall, then this free event is a MUST for you to attend.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

During the free 3-hour high-energy seminar, you will be introduced to and get to watch live in action Lifestyle Executive Coaches Stefan, Jason, and Cheyenne. As well as the talented Lifestyle Transformations Image Consultant, Heidi Naomi.

The last event we held was SOLD OUT… in fact, the room was over-booked and there wasn’t enough seats available for everyone! So in case you’re wondering, YES… these events do fill up and sell out.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

This is a special, transformational seminar that WILL have an impact on your life one way or another. You will leave this event buzzing the following week with a newfound energy and confidence over your life.

Seating is limited! Go sign up ASAP at

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

There is a $20 deposit required to reserve your seat. This is so that we have an idea of how many people are attending, and it’s a way of getting a committment from you that you’re going to show up and take action towards this area of your life. This deposit is available for refund at the end of the event.

They say that 80% of success is just SHOWING UP. So, decide and commit to yourself RIGHT NOW that you’re going to do what it takes to get this area of your life handled… FOR GOOD.

To check out our upcoming FREE Meeting Women Seminar Schedule, go to:

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

If you’re interested in more upcoming seminars, or even ones in your area (different cities) then be sure to sign up for the newsletter to stay informed.

Stefan
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations

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The Richest Man in Babylon Review

Published by Stefan on May 24, 2008 in Miscellaneous and Reviews. 1 Comment

Lately I’ve decided to pick up a few books on the area of finances and money.  It’s such an important subject, and to be honest, has probably been the least of my priorities in my life thus-far.  I’ve always focused on my relationships to an extensive degree, as well as health and my emotional well-being.  But, for some reason, money hasn’t ever been a motivator for me or a concern.

I never really had money growing up or anything, or have I been rich or financially free by any means.  Perhaps I just haven’t experienced enough pain to want to make strides or changes in this area.  But, after re-evaluating my life and where I’m at several months ago, this is an area that I’d like to learn more about and master, as for every other area of life.

I’ve read a few finance books, such as the Wealthy Barber and others.  I decided to pick up the book called The Richest Man in Babylon, by George S. Clason, which I heard is to be a classic.

I found it to be a very interesting and fascinating book.  The lessons and principles were pretty simple and to the point, however, I found the story to be more interesting.

The book consists of different stories back in the Babylonian days.  One in particular, of a slave that was in debt and extremely poor, who sought out the rich to learn the wisdom and knowledge on how to become wealthy.

The lessons which he had learned and applied to his life were remarkable, and this slave had managed to turn his life around by applying the principles and lessons he had learned.

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Bunny Tales — Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion, by Izabella St. James

Published by Stefan on May 12, 2008 in Miscellaneous and Reviews. 2 Comments

 When I was in LA last month I picked up a book at a bookstore out there called Bunny Tales - Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion, written by Izabella St. James. 

I read Jenna Jameson’s biography a year or two ago and really enjoyed learning the lifestyle of a gorgeous celebrity.  Just reading the crazy stories and what she went through is really captivating and educational.

I decided to pick up this book because I was curious about the lifestyle at the legendary Playboy Mansion.  What really goes on there?  And, not only that, but reading the story and lifestyle of a beautiful girl is also interesting to me.

Izabella St. James tells the honest truth and story of how she moved into the Playboy Mansion, came to become one of Hugh Hefners 7 girlfriends, and shares all the details and drama of what REALLY goes on at the mansion. 

I found it interesting to learn about Hugh Hefner as well, as he’s envied by millions of men around the world and is heralded as the ultimate “ladies man.”

But, from reading the book, one interesting realization that I came to was that Hugh Hefner isn’t to be envied at all.  In fact, in many ways, I feel bad for him and even pity him.

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3 Days Remaining — FREE Lifestyle Transformations Seminar in Vancouver

Published by Stefan on May 8, 2008 in Updates. 1 Comment

This Saturday, on May 10th 2008, Lifestyle Transformations is hosting a FREE SEMINAR in Vancouver.

I posted about it earlier, which can be found by clicking here.

If you want to directly visit the page for registration, then go here:

http://www.lifestyletransformations.com/freeseminar.php

This is going to be an amazing event! So if you live in Vancouver, register asap!

Stefan
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations

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The Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Gallwey

Published by Stefan on May 4, 2008 in Articles, Reviews and Self Improvement. 0 Comments

I picked up this book while I was in Los Angeles at a bookstore near the hotel I was staying at.  I heard about this book from David DeAngelo, because apparently Timothy Gallwey is the one who created this whole concept of “Inner Game.” 

Since then, the Inner Game concept is well-known (especially throughout the community) and it’s something that fascinates me.  I decided to read the book itself and see what I could learn.

I wasn’t disappointed.  Timothy Gallwey talks about the idea of Inner Game, but in this books case in the area of tennis.  However, the concepts and principles basically apply to all aspects of life.  There are major comparisons of the Inner Game of sports and when it comes to approaching and meeting women. 

In the introduction, Tim talks about how every game is composed of two parts: Inner Game and Outer Game.  Or, in the area of meeting and dating women, there is the composition of Inner and Outer Game.  I also like to think of it as Psychology and the Mechanics.

The outer game is played against an external opponent to overcome external obstacles, and to reach an external goal.  Mastering this game is the subject of many books offering instructions on how to swing a racket, club or bat, and how to position arms, legs or torso to achieve the best results.  But for some reason most of us find these instructions easier to remember than to execute.

It is the thesis of this book that neither mastery nor satisfaction can be found in the playing of any game without giving some attention to the relatively neglected skills of the inner game.  This is the game that takes place in the mind of the player, and it is played against such obstacles as lapses in concentration, nervousness, self-doubt and self-condemnation.  In short, it is played to overcome all habits of mind which inhibit excellence in performance.

We often wonder why we play so well one day and so poorly the best, or why we clutch during competition, or blow easy shots.  And why does it take so long to break a bad habit and learn a new one?  Victories in the inner game may provide no additions to the trophy case, but they bring valuable rewards which are more permanent and which can contribute significantly to one’s success, off the court as well as on.

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Drinking

Published by Jason on April 30, 2008 in Articles and Miscellaneous. 1 Comment

I used to be a heavy drinker (and I mean lots!). I would go out to a party and bring a 26 oz bottle of rum if I wanted to take it easy, and a 40 oz bottle if I wanted to get drunk. Yup, I had a talent for drinking.

People loved me when I drank because I was a fun, stupid guy who did whatever and didn’t care. Having said that though, I could never get women to take me seriously or be interested in me. They knew I was drunk and probably thought I was just talking to them because I wanted to get laid (and there was probably some truth to that). Obviously, that’s not a good mindset for women to have when you’re trying to get to know them.

What I realize now is that I was covering up for something when I drank. Like most men, I thought it made me more social and I didn’t get as nervous about approaching women. In my head, I thought drinking was good because it made me more comfortable.

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FREE Lifestyle Transformations Seminar in Vancouver

Published by Stefan on April 22, 2008 in Dating & Relationships, Miscellaneous, Self Improvement and Updates. 1 Comment

On Saturday, May 10th 2008, Lifestyle Transformations will be hosting a FREE seminar which will be held in Vancouver, BC.

These free events don’t come by very often.  The last one we did was back in January with Zan Perrion, which turned out to be a massive success with a ton of feedback.  Everyone walked away happy and gained a lot of new insights and received a lot of value.

That is our purpose — to offer value.  And I can guarantee, during this event we will not disappoint.

The seminar will be around 3 hours long and there will be 4 speakers.  Jason, Cheyenne, Stefan and one of the newest members of our team (whose name I won’t disclose yet).

If you want to receive a ton of value for FREE, while meeting the best dating coaches that Vancouver has to offer, as well as network and connect with a ton of likeminded individuals, then you can’t miss out.

Our last free event had over 40 people attend.  This one we’re expecting it to explode past our expectations.

The focus is going to be on dating and meeting women.  We’re going to teach and share with you guys our personal SECRETS that will rocketfuel your success with not only women and dating, but life in general.  And I can promise you that noone else in the community is teaching this stuff.  Mark my words, these 3 hours will be the BEST investment in time you could possibly make.

How do you register?  Simply click this link and visit

http://www.lifestyletransformations.com/freeseminar.php

The event is FREE, however we are collecting a $20 deposit from all attendee’s which will be refunded to them at the end of the event.  This basically ensures that you will show up, holds you accountable, and gives us a clear idea of how many people we can expect so that we don’t overbook the room (the room fits 90 people and could possibly sell out).

There will also be a FREE DRAW for a Lifestyle Transformations In-Field Workshop held on the same weekend after the seminar.

So again, go to http://www.lifestyletransformations.com/freeseminar.php to register your spot.

Here are a few testimonials for those that have attended our events…

“I want to thank Jason, Cheyenne, and Stefan for giving up their time to teach me a few things. They exude a positive light and welcoming energy. What sets these guys apart from others is their philosophy for always giving a value to the world which is genuine and also quite humbling.

If you’re tired of mundane success, and want to quickly and drastically improve your lifestyle, Lifestyle Transformations is true to their name. Check them out.”
    Jason C, Vancouver

“Lifestyle Transformations… offers to help guys get their act together - not just with women, but in all areas of life.”
    The Georgia Straight

“The results speak for themselves. After only a couple of hours of coaching, I was transformed from being afraid of approaching girls, to having absolutely zero fear at all. The following weekend I met many girls during the day and night, without Stefan’s supervision, including one I like a very much, and who I shall meet this weekend. I like to think it was me who made this change in myself, but it wouldn’t have happened without Stefan guiding me.”
    Andrew, Ireland

“Jason and Stefan are two great guys who just want to help the average man achieve success with the female gender. I was amazed by what I learned in terms of scenarios and words that I could say to women, in what I never knew before I met these fine gentlemen. I’m happy I have met Jason and Stefan and the experience I had will always be with me as I continue to find love and happiness.”
    Benjamin the Butler, the Beat 94.5

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Timothy Ferriss - The 4 Hour Work Week Review

Published by Stefan on April 17, 2008 in Articles, Miscellaneous, Reviews and Self Improvement. 2 Comments

The 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss

The book I just finished reading for my 8 Week Book Reading Challenge is called The 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss.

I originally learned about it from my roommate and then later by people I’ve met. It’s been getting a lot of hype and publicity, being a New York Times bestseller. I had heard a lot of great things about the book, so I decided to check it out.

And after thoroughly going through the book, I am happy to say that it is an amazing book and I’m glad I picked it up. It really opened my eyes to a lot of great ideas and a new way of looking at things in life.

The book is all about how to “escape the 9 to 5, live anywhere, and join the new rich.”

Most people spend their entire lives WORKING and looking forward to retirement, which is when they’ll finally get the opportunity to travel and be free to do the things they really want in life. Whereas Timothy believes that retirement isn’t the goal, but rather we should LIVE and ENJOY our lives today.

That’d be great, except most people live in the cultural hypnosis that we need to work 40+ hours per week to be successful and wealthy. Or that we need to go to college or university and then afterwards find a job and work until we’re 60 until retirement.

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