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Delivering The Goods

You may have seen them – those rare men that are excelling at a rapid pace – and you may be wondering what their secret is. I don’t know, and frankly I don’t care. What I do care is that YOU are excelling at a rapid pace. And I’m going to share with you one of the most powerful mindsets to do that, starting TODAY.

Take a moment and think of the last time you were out being social and meeting people.  Now if I was to ask you to tell me with complete honesty and integrity what level you were playing at on a scale of 1-10, would you say 100? In fact, when was the last time you played at a 100? Or worse, have you never played at a 100??

If you want to get good fast you have to push your boundaries every time you go out. Whether its rolling into a group of 9 guys and 1 cute girl, or chasing her down for 6 blocks to make her day, or deciding to get your second and third and fourth wind when things aren’t going your way.

As you’re answering this you may wonder how this translates into results. Your mind has already begun rationalizing that it’s not worth it. What’s the point, after all, you can go and approach this other girl that’s standing there by herself. Easier? Yes, and in the short-term it may seem like the better way to go. But you will deny yourself the most amazing growth and long-term results if that remains your philosophy. This whole thing isn’t about instant results, it’s about what kind of a man you become.

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Offering Value… Making the World a Better Place

There’s an important concept I’m going to share with you guys today. 

It’s essentially the most important principle that we teach and live by at Lifestyle Transformations.

It’s the notion of OFFERING VALUE.

Let me explain…

Most guys, when they choose to meet or interact with someone, especially a cute girl - they’re trying to TAKE VALUE from them. 

What this means is that they usually have an AGENDA - they want something from them.  Everything they do or say is to meet that outcome - complimenting a girl, buying a girl drinks, saying or doing things to brag or impress, over qualifying theirselves, putting up a front or a persona, being inauthentic or disgenuine, or trying to validate themselves by getting others to fill a void or emptiness inside of them.  This is TAKING VALUE.

Doing things like complimenting a girl isn’t BAD… only when you’re doing it to reach a specific outcome.

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