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My Journey & Transformation With Meeting Women & Life

Published by Sean on November 9, 2008 in Articles and Motivation. 1 Comment

My name is Sean and I used to be addicted to women.

The story begins 6 years ago when I was burned by two girlfriends in a row. I was dating them each for a year and both of them ended up cheating on me. I was motivated to improve myself and that is what lead me to finding the community. Even though I was a pretty cool guy in Highschool playing hockey and knowing the cool people, I never had that much success with girls and when I did get one they would fuck someone else!

I stumbled upon ASF and through the wingman meetup forum I was introduced to Stefan of Lifestyle Transformations. Stefan wanted to improve his life because he was lonely and tired of just playing video games and eating junk food.

When we met Stefan was shy, timid and quiet. He was the definition of a geek. When I met him I was thinking “I’m going to learn how to pickup women with this guy?” He introduced me to Cheyenne, John, Scott and a few others. Together we got the Vancouver Lair started with another guy by the name of Ron. We decided to go our separate ways from Ron to focus on improving ourselves.

We went out 6 and sometimes 7 nights a week. The beginning was rough. We couldn’t even ask an ugly girl on the street for directions or the weather. We spent 10 hours a day in malls, on the street, in coffee shops, in nightclubs all ‘peacocked’ out. We would talk to hundreds of people per day. We did this for 6 months straight. No rest for the weak!

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It’s the Journey, Not the Destination

Published by Stefan on April 15, 2008 in Articles, Miscellaneous, Motivation and Self Improvement. 1 Comment

I’ve been reading the book The Four Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss (book review coming soon) and on the last chapter there is a poem that I really liked.  I thought I’d share it with you guys.

It’s called SLOW DANCE by David L. Weatherford.

        SLOW DANCE

Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?

Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.
Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.
The music won’t last.

Do you run through each day
On the fly?

When you ask: How are you?
Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done,
do you lie in your bed

With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?

You’d better slow down.
Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.
The music won’t last.

Ever told your child,
We’ll do it tomorrow?

And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die

Cause you never had time
To call and say, “Hi”?

You’d better slow down.
Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.
The music won’t last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,
It’s like an unopened gift thrown away.

Life is not a race.
Do take it slower.

Hear the music
Before the song is over.

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5 Easy Steps to Get Motivated to Mastery

Published by Stefan on January 30, 2008 in Articles, Motivation and Self Improvement. 1 Comment

After spending this month trying to solidify my goals and resolutions for the year, I decided I’d share a proven success formula that I personally use, which is guaranteed to jump-start your emotions to take action and produce amazing results.

I learned this from the ultimate success coach, Tony Robbins, and it’s mandatory for whenever I set a new goal.

Be sure to get out a pen and a few sheets of paper.  Otherwise, reading this article is USELESS if you’re just going to read it over and say to yourself “oh, that’s nice…”  Rather, the PURPOSE of this is to give you enough REASONS and LEVERAGE to take massive action towards getting a specific area of your life taken care of. 

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