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My Journey & Transformation With Meeting Women & Life

Published by Sean on November 9, 2008 in Articles and Motivation. 1 Comment

My name is Sean and I used to be addicted to women.

The story begins 6 years ago when I was burned by two girlfriends in a row. I was dating them each for a year and both of them ended up cheating on me. I was motivated to improve myself and that is what lead me to finding the community. Even though I was a pretty cool guy in Highschool playing hockey and knowing the cool people, I never had that much success with girls and when I did get one they would fuck someone else!

I stumbled upon ASF and through the wingman meetup forum I was introduced to Stefan of Lifestyle Transformations. Stefan wanted to improve his life because he was lonely and tired of just playing video games and eating junk food.

When we met Stefan was shy, timid and quiet. He was the definition of a geek. When I met him I was thinking “I’m going to learn how to pickup women with this guy?” He introduced me to Cheyenne, John, Scott and a few others. Together we got the Vancouver Lair started with another guy by the name of Ron. We decided to go our separate ways from Ron to focus on improving ourselves.

We went out 6 and sometimes 7 nights a week. The beginning was rough. We couldn’t even ask an ugly girl on the street for directions or the weather. We spent 10 hours a day in malls, on the street, in coffee shops, in nightclubs all ‘peacocked’ out. We would talk to hundreds of people per day. We did this for 6 months straight. No rest for the weak!

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The Natural’s Manifesto

Published by John on October 24, 2008 in Articles and Dating & Relationships. 2 Comments

There’s this ridiculous notion that people who learn about dating are somehow socially deficient, that they’re awkward in conversations, or have some horrible insecurity and are unable to talk to women without other people’s help. I’ve always found this concept ridiculous, since most of the students I meet are hundreds of times more charming than the rest of the population.

I’ll use myself as example— I can’t tell you how many women I’ve been with, felt deeply for, or dated (I’ve never bothered to count, suffice to say it’s several digits long)—but I’ve got a couple shoeboxes full of pictures, love letters, and other memorabilia to remind me of the impact they’ve had on my life. In a word, I’m a natural—a man who seems blessed by the gods to be with women; but don’t let the appearances fool you, being a natural has everything to do with education, I’ve never stopped studying women since I realized the power one can have over them.

My first encounter with women is at age 6, when I was called into the principle’s office after a playground fight between two girls broke out over who should be my girlfriend.

“That’s stupid”, I said to my bewildered principle, “why can’t they both be my girlfriend?” (I’ve carried that belief with me ever since.)

Throughout high school, a reputation of charm seemed to follow me everywhere. In 8th grade, after a particularly famous break-up with a cute Asian girl named Vivian, a gorgeous blond girl named Tiffany invited me to her place so she could console my grief. As we made out in front of her door, her brunette friend, Jill, came by and joined in on the fun. My first PG-rated threesome, I suppose. The next day, the school’s basketball star came by to pick a fight with me after hearing the story—apparently he’s been trying to get her on a date for the past year. Come to think of it, every fight I’ve gotten into with other guys since then have been over girls, and I have yet to walk away without the girls in question on my arm.

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The FREE Meeting Women Seminar

Published by Stefan on May 25, 2008 in Updates. 1 Comment

I’m happy and excited to announce the FREE MEETING WOMEN SEMINAR hosted by Lifestyle Transformations, in Vancouver BC.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

If you’re interested in improving not only your relationships and success with women, but your LIFE overall, then this free event is a MUST for you to attend.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

During the free 3-hour high-energy seminar, you will be introduced to and get to watch live in action Lifestyle Executive Coaches Stefan, Jason, and Cheyenne. As well as the talented Lifestyle Transformations Image Consultant, Heidi Naomi.

The last event we held was SOLD OUT… in fact, the room was over-booked and there wasn’t enough seats available for everyone! So in case you’re wondering, YES… these events do fill up and sell out.

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

This is a special, transformational seminar that WILL have an impact on your life one way or another. You will leave this event buzzing the following week with a newfound energy and confidence over your life.

Seating is limited! Go sign up ASAP at

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

There is a $20 deposit required to reserve your seat. This is so that we have an idea of how many people are attending, and it’s a way of getting a committment from you that you’re going to show up and take action towards this area of your life. This deposit is available for refund at the end of the event.

They say that 80% of success is just SHOWING UP. So, decide and commit to yourself RIGHT NOW that you’re going to do what it takes to get this area of your life handled… FOR GOOD.

To check out our upcoming FREE Meeting Women Seminar Schedule, go to:

http://www.free-meeting-women-seminar.com

If you’re interested in more upcoming seminars, or even ones in your area (different cities) then be sure to sign up for the newsletter to stay informed.

Stefan
Executive Coach
Lifestyle Transformations

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Delivering The Goods

Published by Cheyenne on April 2, 2008 in Dating & Relationships, Motivation and Self Improvement. 2 Comments

You may have seen them – those rare men that are excelling at a rapid pace – and you may be wondering what their secret is. I don’t know, and frankly I don’t care. What I do care is that YOU are excelling at a rapid pace. And I’m going to share with you one of the most powerful mindsets to do that, starting TODAY.

Take a moment and think of the last time you were out being social and meeting people.  Now if I was to ask you to tell me with complete honesty and integrity what level you were playing at on a scale of 1-10, would you say 100? In fact, when was the last time you played at a 100? Or worse, have you never played at a 100??

If you want to get good fast you have to push your boundaries every time you go out. Whether its rolling into a group of 9 guys and 1 cute girl, or chasing her down for 6 blocks to make her day, or deciding to get your second and third and fourth wind when things aren’t going your way.

As you’re answering this you may wonder how this translates into results. Your mind has already begun rationalizing that it’s not worth it. What’s the point, after all, you can go and approach this other girl that’s standing there by herself. Easier? Yes, and in the short-term it may seem like the better way to go. But you will deny yourself the most amazing growth and long-term results if that remains your philosophy. This whole thing isn’t about instant results, it’s about what kind of a man you become.

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