When you said you must give instead of take I totally agree and what my take on it is: you must give that love, instead of taking it, give it without conditions (and when I mean give love I don’t mean flowers, though a right timed rose can be magic). I also put attraction in this way ATTRACTION = their want to relate to you
Well I’ve tried to phrase things in a comprehensive way but sometimes it is difficult to describe your mindset…
Hope I could help
]]>There’s no right or wrong answer for this, so long as you’re coming from a place of giving. The key, here, is not *what* you’re offering, it’s that you are offering. It’s the mentality that makes the difference, and it’s the mentality, not the result, that women are drawn to.
The question in your mind could either be “what can I offer her so that she wants to give back”, or “what can I offer her because she needs it.” It’s the difference between wanting to take and wanting to give.
Most of the time, men who approach women don’t give a shit what the women need, they only care about what *they* need. Try being a man who does the reverse, a man who only cares about what the opposite sex needs. Fulfill that need, and you’ll be the one they desire forever.
]]>Great post either way
Thanx